A conversation with a four-decades-deep Saint Joseph鈥檚 alumni family.
By Ann Swardlick
To talk with the extended Shea family, which includes Brembs, Paladinos, and Fosters, is to glimpse nearly 40 years of campus life at Saint Joseph鈥檚 College. There are veiled references to 25-cent beers, Jell-O wrestling, baseball road trips, and bonfires by the lake. But don鈥檛 think for a moment that they鈥檙e telling us everything.
When Mike Shea met Nancy Brembs at 色虎视频, he was one of only two guys in the junior class. 鈥淒espite the male-female imbalance,鈥� says Nancy, 鈥淚 was the one he asked to Spring Weekend!鈥� And thus began a relationship that grew into a
family legacy.
Here is some of what we gleaned from a recent conversation with eight members of the Shea tribe:
The 鈥�70s
Mike Shea 鈥�72:聽鈥淚 transferred to Saint Joe鈥檚 in 1970, the year the College went co-ed. Most of the male students were freshmen鈥擨 was a rare upperclassman. How the Sisters of Mercy survived is a mystery! What shone forth was their commitment to higher education: they would push us to go above and beyond.鈥�
Nancy (Brembs) Shea 鈥�74:聽鈥淓verybody knew everybody. I鈥檝e stayed in close contact with so many of my friends from freshman year, including Sr. Michele Aronica 鈥�74, current chair of the sociology department, who I鈥檝e known since high school. After graduation, she decided to become a nun, and I decided to get married.鈥�
The 鈥�80s
Jim Paladino 鈥�81:聽鈥淚 have great memories of Monks baseball road trips. My philosophy at the time was: You never get these four years of your life back, so take advantage of everything you can. You鈥檙e going to make mistakes, but our teachers encouraged us to open our eyes and take risks. One accounting professor, Richard Lamb, had a big impact on my career.鈥�
Marianne (Shea) Paladino 鈥�82:聽鈥淚 remember visiting my older brother, Mike, and loving the small campus on the lake. I also liked the College鈥檚 holistic approach to nursing. They taught us to care for the whole person鈥攎ind, body, and spirit. It was challenging, but we had plenty of time for fun. It鈥檚 not the studying I remember, it鈥檚 the great times and friendships I made.鈥�
Eddie Brembs 鈥�83:聽鈥淚 came up to visit my sister, Nancy, and made an instant decision to transfer. I liked the close-knit community and the small-college atmosphere. I met Dino [aka Jim Paladino] right away. We both played baseball and believed in making the best of the time we had in college. (鈥楤eat the Clock鈥� and 25-cent beers come to mind!)鈥�
The 鈥�90s (into the aughts)
Colleen (Shea) Hallee 鈥�00:聽鈥淪aint Joseph鈥檚 seemed so big and exciting to me when I was young. Since my father was on the Board, we visited often. I wanted to go to college out-of-state, and I thought playing Division III field hockey would be exciting. So, Saint Joe鈥檚 was the perfect fit. As an education major, the professors really pushed our comfort levels. Right away, they put us in front of a classroom. When I became a teacher, I was really well prepared.鈥�
The Millennials
Katie (Foster) Paladino 鈥�07:聽鈥淚 applied on a whim. I wanted to go away to a Catholic college鈥攂ut not too far away鈥攁nd it was a privilege to be at Saint Joe鈥檚 when Father John Tokaz was there. The education department was amazing. We knew our professors; they helped me get out there and become a teacher. And another good thing: I met my wonderful, handsome husband, Andrew!鈥�
Andrew Paladino 鈥�09:聽鈥淲ith a mom, dad, aunt, and uncle who all went to Saint Joseph鈥檚, it was a foregone conclusion I would be next! As a business major, I liked the non-traditional, project-based approach. It got us to think outside the box. My HR management professor, Beth Richardson [now director of career development], was phenomenal. She really helped prepare me for the business world.鈥�
Back to the Future with Mike Shea
In 1975, Mike was invited to serve on the Saint Joseph鈥檚 Board of Overseers (now the Board of Trustees). It was the first of multiple terms on the Board and marked a turning point in the College鈥檚 history: the beginning of Saint Joseph鈥檚 pioneering entry into distance learning.
鈥淚鈥檝e seen the College grow up,鈥� says Mike. 鈥淲e鈥檝e grown in both size and stature. There鈥檚 no need to be shy about the quality of our education and our facilities. Saint Joseph鈥檚 College is no longer a hidden gem.鈥�
鈥淭he physical changes are the most startling,鈥� he adds, 鈥渂ut there is also a change in the atmosphere. There鈥檚 a vibrancy here, a lot of exciting things are going on.鈥�
Mike will continue to play a leadership role as the College moves ahead with ambitious campus improvements and new initiatives as outlined in the President鈥檚 strategic plan. He鈥檚 a strong advocate for active alumni engagement to help Saint Joseph鈥檚 maintain its momentum and reach its potential for growth and stability. And the Sheas will always be here, providing the College with a solid foundation grounded in family history.
鈥淲e鈥檝e done a good job, if not intentionally, of creating a Saint Joseph鈥檚 legacy,鈥� says Mike. With six in the next generation鈥攕oon to be nine鈥攖here鈥檚 already an expansion team waiting in the wings.
